Kids always dream about their future. For some, they want to become independent, successful professionals, while others dream of being a loving parent or a reliable worker. No matter what career path they choose, most young people strive to become independent and financially secure. But with independence comes responsibility. Learning to take responsibility for our own successes and failures is an important part of achieving true independence. Teaching children to take responsibility for their actions can help them to be better equipped to handle the realities of adult life and the choices they have to make along the way. One way to help children learn to be responsible is by setting appropriate expectations for them. Explain to them that their choices will have consequences, both good and bad. Explain to them that making good decisions can have positive effects on their future. As parents, we should also make sure that they understand the impact that their decisions have on their family. In addition to setting expectations, parents should provide children with the tools they need to make responsible decisions. This could include things such as encouraging them to talk to someone before impulsively acting or having them consider the possible consequences of their actions. The more educated and informed our children are, the more likely they are to make responsible decisions. We can also help our children learn to take responsibility by praising them when they do take ownership of their choices and mistakes. Showing our children that they are capable and competent when they show responsibility will reinforce the behavior and give them the confidence they need to take risks in the future. Taking responsibility for our own actions is something that needs to be taught to our children. With the right guidance and support, our children can develop the sense of responsibility and independence needed to become successful adults.